Tuesday, August 29, 2006

The Art of Marriage


The little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say
"I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.

It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end with the honeymoon,
it should continue through all the years.

It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude
of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.

It is speaking words of appreciation and
demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not expecting the husband to wear a halo
or the wife to have wings of an angel.

It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,
understanding and a sense of humor.

It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.
It is finding room for the things of the spirit.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.

It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner,
it is being the right partner.

Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Satu Tahunlah!~


Hari ini, tahun lepas.
Entry pertama di kotakhujan.

Hari ini, tahun ini.
Selamat Hari Jadi!

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Bukan Diriku - Samsons


Setelah kupahami
Ku bukan yang terbaik

Yang ada di hatimu

Tak dapat kusangsikan
Ternyata dirinyalah
Yang mengerti kamu
Bukanlah diriku

Kini maafkanlah aku
Bila ku menjadi bisu
Kepada dirimu

Bukan santunku terbungkam
Hanya hatiku berbatas
'tuk mengerti kamu
Maafkanlah aku

Walau ku masih mencintaimu
Ku harus meninggalkanmu
Ku harus melupakanmu
Meski hatiku menyayangimu

Nurani membutuhkanmu

Ku harus merelakanmu

Dan hanyalah dirimu
Yang mampu memahamiku

Yang dapat mengerti aku

Ternyata dirinyalah
Yang sanggup menyanjungmu

Yang lama menyentuhmu
Bukanlah diriku..


Hahaha.. saje² nak tacing sebelum gi bersuke rie esok. Enjoy!!~